Zitholele ubuciko bokungahlanganyeli no-Mark Manson
Omunye wemibono ewumqoka wencwadi ka-Mark Manson ethi “Ubuciko Obucashile Bokungakhathaleli” ukuthatha umbono ohlakulelwe ngokucophelela wokungakhethi ukuze uphile ukuphila okwanelisa kakhudlwana. Ngokuphambene nalokho umuntu angase akucabange, ukugxeka akusho ukungabi nandaba, kodwa kunalokho ukukhetha izinto esizinikeza ukubaluleka.
Umbono kaManson uyikhambi lemiyalezo evamile ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu ezikhuthaza abantu ukuthi bahlale benesimo esihle futhi baphishekele injabulo ngokungapheli. Ngokuphambene, uManson uthi isihluthulelo sokuphila okujabulisayo nokwanelisayo sitholakala ekufundeni ukwamukela nokwamukela ukwehluleka, ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki.
Kule ncwadi, uManson unikeza indlela engasho lutho futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, indlela evusa inkanuko ngamabomu ebekela inselele izinkolelo zethu mayelana nokuthi yini ebaluleke ngempela ekuphileni. Esikhundleni sokusho ukuthi “kungenzeka noma yini,” uManson usikisela ukuthi kufanele samukele ukulinganiselwa kwethu futhi sifunde ukuphila nakho. Ugomela ngokuthi kungokwamukela amaphutha, amaphutha nokungapheleli kwethu lapho singathola khona injabulo nokwaneliseka kweqiniso.
Ukucabanga Kabusha Ngenjabulo Nempumelelo noMark Manson
Kulandelana kwethi “Ubuciko obucashile bokunganiki i-F***”, uManson wenza ukuhlaziya okuhlabayo kwemibono engelona iqiniso yamasiko esimanje mayelana nenjabulo nempumelelo. Uphikisa ngokuthi ukukhulekelwa kokuphoqeleka okungenamibandela kanye nokuthatheka ngokuzuza okuqhubekayo akukhona nje okungenangqondo, kodwa futhi kungase kube yingozi.
UManson ukhuluma ngezingozi zesiko “elihlala lingaphezulu” elenza abantu bakholelwe ukuthi kufanele bahlale bengcono, benze okwengeziwe, futhi babe nokuningi. Uthi lo mcabango, uholela ekubeni nomuzwa wokunganeliseki nokwehluleka njalo, ngoba kuyohlale kunokuthile okuzuzwayo.
Esikhundleni salokho, uManson uphakamisa ukuthi sibuyekeze izindinganiso zethu futhi siyeke ukulinganisa ukufaneleka kwethu ngezindlela ezikha phezulu zempumelelo, njengesimo somphakathi, ingcebo, noma ukuduma. Ngokusho kwakhe, kungenxa yokuqaphela nokwamukela imingcele yethu, ukufunda ukwenqaba nokukhetha ngamabomu izimpi zethu lapho singathola khona ukwaneliseka kwangempela komuntu siqu.
Izifundo Ezibalulekile ezivela “Ubuciko Obucashile Bokunganikezeli”
Iqiniso elibalulekile uManson afisa ukulidlulisela kubafundi bakhe ukuthi impilo ayihlali ilula, futhi lokho kulungile. Ukuphishekela injabulo njalo njengomgomo wokugcina kuwukufuna ukuzithiba ngoba akunaki ukubaluleka nezifundo ezingavela ebunzimeni nasezinseleleni.
Ifilosofi kaManson ikhuthaza abafundi ukuba baqonde ukuthi ubuhlungu, ukwehluleka, nokudumazeka kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Kunokuba sifune ukugwema lezi zigigaba, kufanele sizamukele njengezici ezibalulekile zokuthuthuka kwethu siqu.
Ekugcineni, uManson usikhuthaza ukuthi samukele izici zokuphila ezingajabulisi, samukele ukungapheleli kwethu, futhi siqonde ukuthi asikhethekile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungokwamukela la maqiniso lapho singathola khona inkululeko yokuphila ukuphila okuyiqiniso nokwanelisayo.
Ungabuka ividiyo engezansi eyethula izahluko zokuqala zencwadi. Nokho, lokhu akuthathi indawo yokufunda okuphelele kwencwadi engikukhuthaza ukuba uyithole.
