Ukuthola Amandla Okuzithiba
Ezweni eliqhubeka likhuthaza ukunethezeka nokukhululeka, ikhono lokubonisa ukuzithiba lingase libonakale liba namandla. ikhono elingavamile. Nokho, uMartin Gautier, encwadini yakhe ethi “Motivation and Self-discipline”, usikhumbuza ngokubaluleka kwalokhu kufaneleka ekuphishekeleni izinjongo zethu kanye nokuzuza impumelelo.
U-Martin Gautier uhlola izinzuzo eziningi zokuzithiba, noma ngabe ukufeza izinjongo zomuntu siqu noma zomsebenzi, ukuthuthukisa impilo nokuphila kahle, noma ukukhulisa umkhiqizo nokusebenza kahle. Iqokomisa indlela ukuzithiba okungaba yisihluthulelo sokunqoba ukuhlehlisa izinto, ukuphatha isikhathi ngokuphumelelayo, nokuphikelela lapho ubhekene nezithiyo.
Umbhali uphinde agcizelele ukubaluleka kogqozi lwangaphakathi lokusekela ukuzithiba. Ngokusho kwakhe, ukuthola isisusa esijulile nesomuntu siqu sokufeza umgomo kungaba yisici esinqumayo ekhonweni lokulondoloza ukuzithiba esikhathini eside.
Akanamahloni okubhekana nezinselele esibhekana nazo uma kuziwa ekuboniseni ukuzithiba. Phakathi kwalezi zinselele, ubala iziphazamiso ezigcwele izwe lethu lanamuhla, izinto esizilindele okungenangqondo ngathi, kanye nokuntula ukucaciseleka ngemigomo yethu yangempela. Inikeza iseluleko esiwusizo sokunqoba lezi zithiyo futhi uthuthukise ukuzithiba okuhlala njalo.
Ekugcineni, uMartin Gautier unikeza amasu aphathekayo namasu okuqinisa ukuzithiba. Kusukela ekumiseni izinqubo ezisebenzayo, ukuya ekufundeni indlela yokuphatha ingcindezi, ekuthuthukiseni umqondo wokukhula, inikeza inqwaba yezinsiza kulabo abafuna ukuthuthukisa ukuzithiba kwabo.
"Ukugqugquzeleka Nokuzithiba" akuyona nje inkomba yokuthuthukisa ukuzithiba, kodwa futhi kuyinsiza ebalulekile yokuqonda ukuthi leli khono lingayiguqula kanjani impilo yakho.
Ukuthola Amandla Okuzithiba: Martin Gautier
Ku-Gautier, ukuxhumana phakathi kokugqugquzela nokuzithiba akunakuhlukaniswa. Kuyinhlanganisela enamandla engasiholela empumelelweni yomuntu siqu neyezobuchwepheshe engakaze ibonwe ngaphambili. Ugomela ngokuthi, nakuba ukugqugquzelwa kungaba yimbangela yesenzo, ukuzithiba okuqinisekisa ukuqhubeka nokuvumelana kwalezi zenzo ekufezeni izinhloso.
Okunye okugqamile emsebenzini wakhe umqondo wokuthi ukuzithiba akusona isici esizalwa naso, kodwa kuyikhono elingathuthukiswa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangomzamo. Kulokhu, ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokusungula izinqubo zansuku zonke ezikhuthaza ukuzithiba. Lezi zinqubo, uma zilandelwa njalo, zingasiza ekwakheni ukuzithiba futhi zenze kube ngokwemvelo.
Ngaphandle kwezinqubo, u-Gautier ugcizelela ukubaluleka kokubeka imigomo ecacile nefinyelelekayo. Umgomo ochazwe kahle ungasebenza njengesiqondiso futhi unikeze incazelo ezenzweni zethu zansuku zonke. Uphinde uncome ukugubha ukunqoba okuncane endleleni, okungakhuphula ugqozi nokuzibophezela emgomweni wokugcina.
Umbhali akabushayi indiva ubunzima obukhona emsebenzini wokuzikhuza. Iyabona ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ubhekana nezinselele ezihlukile futhi inikeza amasu okunqoba izithiyo ezifana nokuhlehlisa izinto, ukuphazamiseka nokudikibala. Ukhuthaza ukubheka lezi zinselelo hhayi njengezehluleki, kodwa njengamathuba okufunda nokukhula.
Ngamafuphi, "Ukugqugquzelwa kanye Nokuzithiba" kunikeza umbono ocebisayo endimeni eyinhloko yokuzithiba ekufezeni izifiso zethu. Ngeseluleko sakhe esisebenzayo nesikhuthazo, u-Gautier unikeza umhlahlandlela obalulekile kunoma ubani ofuna ukulawula izimpilo zabo futhi abone amandla abo aphelele.
Amandla Aguqulayo Okuzithiba: Martin Gautier
Ukuvala ukuhlola kwethu “Ukukhuthazwa Nokuzithiba”, kubalulekile ukugqamisa umbono ka-Gautier wenguquko yomuntu siqu ngokuzithiba. Ngokusho kombhali, ukuzithiba kungabonakala njengento eshukumisayo engasisiza ukuba siguquke ngezindlela ezinhle nezinengqondo.
Umbono obalulekile wale ncwadi ukuthi ukuzithiba kungasetshenziswa njengethuluzi lokunqoba imingcele esizibekela yona. Ngokuhlakulela ukuzithiba okuqinile, singanqoba imikhuba yethu emibi, ukwesaba nokungabaza, futhi ngaleyo ndlela siqaphele izifiso zethu ezijulile.
UGautier uphinde aveze ukuthi ukuzithiba kusivumela ukuthi sisiphathe kangcono isikhathi nezinsiza zethu, okusisiza ukuba sibeke phambili izenzo zethu futhi sigweme iziphazamiso. Ngale ndlela, ukuzithiba kungasisiza ukuthi sikhiqize kakhudlwana futhi sifinyelele izinjongo zethu ngokushesha nangempumelelo kakhudlwana.
Okokugcina, umbhali uphakamisa ukuthi ukuzithiba kungasisiza ukuba sihlakulele ukuqina lapho sibhekene nezingqinamba nezinselele. Kunokuba sivumele izithiyo ukuba zisenze sidangale, ukuzithiba kusikhuthaza ukuba sizibheke njengamathuba okufunda, ukukhula, nokuthuthuka.
"Kodwa ukuzithiba", kugcizelela uGautier, "akusona isiphetho ngokwakho". Kuyindlela yokubona amandla ethu, ukufeza izinhloso zethu, futhi silethe izinguquko ezinhle ezimpilweni zethu kanye nasezimpilweni zabanye. Ngokufunda ukulawula ugqozi lwethu nokuzithiba, silawula ikusasa lethu futhi sisondele kumuntu esifisa ukuba nguye.
Isikhumbuzi: Ividiyo engenhla inikeza ukuqonda okuthakazelisayo kokuthi "Ukukhuthazwa Nokuzithiba", kodwa ayithathi indawo yokufunda incwadi. Zinike isikhathi sokucwilisa kuleli bhuku ukuze usebenzise ngokugcwele ingcebo yolwazi nemininingwane u-Gautier engayinikeza.
