Nqoba ukwesaba kwakho
Ku-"Ukukhetha Isibindi," u-Ryan Holiday usinxusa ukuthi sibhekane nokwesaba kwethu futhi samukele isibindi njengenani eliwumongo lokuphila kwethu. Le ncwadi, ecwile ekuhlakanipheni okujulile kanye nombono oyingqayizivele, isikhuthaza ukuba siphume endaweni yethu yokunethezeka futhi samukele ukungaqiniseki. Umbhali ubonisa impikiswano yakhe esebenzisa izibonelo zabantu abaye babonisa isibindi lapho bebhekene nobunzima.
Iholide lisimema ukuba sicabangele isibindi hhayi nje njengesici esitusekayo, kodwa futhi njengesidingo qaphela amandla ethu. Kugcizelela ukubaluleka kokubhekana nokwesaba kwethu, kuncane noma kukhulu, nokuthatha izinyathelo eziqinile zokukunqoba. Le nqubo, nakuba inzima, iyingxenye ebalulekile yohambo oluya ekuthuthukisweni komuntu siqu nasekuzaziseni.
Umbhali uphinde aveze ukuthi isibindi akusho ukungabibikho kokwesaba, kodwa kusho ukukwazi ukubhekana nokwesaba nokuqhubekela phambili. Usikhumbuza ukuthi isibindi siyikhono elingahlakulelwa futhi lithuthukiswe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangomzamo.
Iholide linikeza amathuluzi asebenzayo kanye namasu okuhlakulela isibindi ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke. Ugcizelela isidingo sokuthatha izingozi ezibaliwe, samukele ukwehluleka njengento engenzeka futhi sifunde emaphutheni ethu.
Kothi "Ukukhetha Kwesibindi", iHolide linikeza umbono okhuthazayo wesibindi namandla angaphakathi. Kusikhumbuza ukuthi zonke izenzo zesibindi, ezinkulu noma ezincane, zisisondeza kumuntu esifuna ukuba nguye. Ezweni elivame ukugcwala ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki, le ncwadi isebenza njengesikhumbuzo esinamandla sokubaluleka kwesibindi nokuqina.
Ukubaluleka Kobuqotho
Esinye isici esibalulekile okukhulunywa ngaso kwesithi “Ukukhetha Kwesibindi” ukubaluleka kobuqotho. Umbhali, uRyan Holiday, uthi isibindi sangempela silele ekugcineni ubuqotho ngaphansi kwazo zonke izimo.
UHoliday uphikisa ngokuthi ubuqotho akuyona nje indaba yokuziphatha noma ukuziphatha, kodwa uhlobo lwesibindi ngokwalo. Ubuqotho budinga isibindi sokuhlala uthembekile ezimisweni zomuntu, ngisho nalapho kunzima noma kungathandwa. Ugomela ngokuthi abantu ababonisa ubuqotho ngokuvamile yilabo abanesibindi sangempela.
Umbhali ugcizelela ukuthi ubuqotho buyigugu okufanele siliqakathekise futhi silivikele. Ukhuthaza abafundi ukuba baphile ngezindinganiso zabo, ngisho nalapho kusho ukubhekana nobunzima noma ukugconwa. Ukugcina ubuqotho bethu, noma sibhekene nezinselelo ezinkulu, kuyisenzo sangempela sesibindi, esho.
Iholide lisinikeza izibonelo zabantu ababonisa ubuqotho naphezu kwezinselele ababhekana nazo. Lezi zindaba zibonisa ukuthi ubuqotho bungaba kanjani isibani ezikhathini zobumnyama, buqondise izenzo zethu kanye nokukhetha kwethu.
Ekugcineni, elithi “Ukukhetha Isibindi” lisikhuthaza ukuba singalokothi silahle ubuqotho bethu. Ngokwenza lokhu, sihlakulela isibindi futhi sibe abantu abanamandla, abakhuthazela kakhudlwana futhi abaphumelele kakhudlwana. Ubuqotho nesibindi kuyahambisana, futhi iHolide lisikhumbuza ukuthi ngamunye wethu unekhono lokubonisa zombili izimfanelo.
Isibindi ebunzimeni
Ku-"Choice of Courage", iHolide ibuye ixoxe ngombono wesibindi lapho ubhekene nobunzima. Ugcizelela ukuthi kusezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu lapho isibindi sethu sangempela sembulwa khona.
Iholide lisimema ukuthi singaboni ubunzima njengesithiyo, kodwa njengethuba lokukhula nokufunda. Uveza ukuthi, lapho sibhekene nobunzima, sinokukhetha phakathi kokuzivumela ukuba sigajwe ukwesaba noma ukusukuma sibonise isibindi. Uthi lokhu kukhetha kunquma ukuthi singobani nokuthi siphila kanjani ukuphila kwethu.
Uhlola umqondo wokuqina, ethi isibindi asikona kakhulu ukungabibikho kokwesaba, kodwa ikhono lokuqhubeka naphezu kwakho. Ngokuhlakulela ukuqina, sihlakulela isibindi sokubhekana nanoma ibuphi ubunzima, futhi siguqule izinselele zibe amathuba okukhula komuntu siqu.
Iholide isebenzisa izibonelo zomlando ezihlukene ukuze ifanekise la maphuzu, ikhombisa ukuthi abaholi abakhulu basebenzise kanjani ubunzima njengesitebhisi sokuya ebukhulu. Kusikhumbuza ukuthi isibindi siyimfanelo engahlakulelwa futhi iqiniswe ngokuzijwayeza nokuzimisela.
Ekugcineni, "Ukukhetha Kwesibindi" kuyisikhumbuzo esinamandla samandla angaphakathi angaphakathi komunye nomunye wethu. Usikhuthaza ukuba samukele ubunzima, sibonise ubuqotho, futhi sikhethe isibindi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isimo sinjani. Usinikeza umbono okhuthazayo novusa inkanuko wokuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela ukuba nesibindi.
