Yakha esakho isitayela sobuholi
Umholi akazalwa, wenziwa. "Vusa umholi ongaphakathi kwakho" wabelane ngamasu aphathekayo okuthuthukisa isitayela sakho ubuholi. I-Harvard Business igcizelela ukuthi umuntu ngamunye unamandla ahlukile obuholi. Imfihlo ilele ekhonweni lokuthola nokuhambisa lawa makhono azalwa nawo.
Omunye wemibono esemqoka yale ncwadi ukuthi ubuholi abutholwa kuphela ngolwazi lomsebenzi noma imfundo. Kuvela futhi ekuziqondeni okujulile komuntu siqu. Umholi ophumelelayo uyawazi amandla abo, ubuthakathaka kanye namagugu. Leli zinga lokuzazi lenza umuntu enze izinqumo eziphusile futhi aqondise abanye ngempumelelo.
Ukuzethemba nakho kudlala indima ebalulekile ekuguqukeni kobuholi obusebenzayo. Incwadi isikhuthaza ukuthi samukele isimo sengqondo sokukhula, sinqobe ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki, futhi sizimisele ukuphuma endaweni yethu yokunethezeka. Lezi zici zibalulekile ekukhuthazeni abanye nokubaqondisa emgomweni ofanayo.
Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana nokulalela
Ukuxhumana kuyisisekelo sanoma yibuphi ubuholi obusebenzayo. Le ncwadi igcizelela ukubaluleka kokuxhumana okucacile nokuyiqiniso ukuze kwakhiwe ubudlelwano obuqinile nobuthembekile phakathi kweqembu.
Kodwa umholi omkhulu akagcini nje ngokukhuluma, uyalalela. Le ncwadi igcizelela ukubaluleka kokulalela ngenkuthalo, ukubekezela kanye nomqondo ovulekile ukuze uqonde izidingo nezifiso zomunye nomunye. Ngokulalela ngokucophelela, umholi angakhuthaza ukusungula izinto ezintsha futhi akhe indawo yokusebenza ehlangene futhi ebandakanya wonke umuntu.
Ukulalela ngentshiseko kuthuthukisa ukuhloniphana nokufunda okuqhubekayo. Isiza ukukhomba nokuxazulula izinkinga ngokushesha, kuyilapho ikhuthaza ukusungula nokusungula izinto ngaphakathi kweqembu.
Ubuholi bokuziphatha kanye nesibopho emphakathini
Le ncwadi ikhuluma ngeqhaza elibalulekile lobuholi bokuziphatha kanye nesibopho emphakathini ezweni lanamuhla lebhizinisi. Umholi kumele abe yisibonelo sobuqotho nokuzibophezela, hhayi kuphela kozakwabo, kodwa nasemphakathini wonkana.
Le ncwadi igcizelela ukuthi abaholi kumele baqaphele imiphumela yenhlalo nemvelo ezinqumweni zabo. Ngokuthatha umbono wesikhathi eside, bangasiza ekwakheni umnotho osimeme futhi olinganayo.
Ukubuyekezwa kwebhizinisi laseHarvard kugcizelela ukuthi abaholi banamuhla kumele bazizwe benesibopho ngezenzo zabo nomthelela wabo. Yilo muzwa wokuzibophezela owakha abaholi abahlonishwayo nabaphumelelayo.
Ingabe uke wahlabeka umxhwele ngezifundo zobuholi ezivezwe kulesi sihloko? Sikumema ukuba ubukele ividiyo ehambisana nalesi sihloko, lapho ungalalela khona izahluko zokuqala zencwadi ethi “Vusa umholi ongaphakathi kwakho”. Kuyisethulo esihle, kodwa khumbula ukuthi kukunikeza amazwibela nje emininingwane ebalulekile ozoyithola ngokuyifunda iphelele incwadi. Ngakho-ke zinike isikhathi sokuhlola ngokugcwele le ngcebo yolwazi futhi uvuse umholi ongaphakathi kwakho!
