Hlakulela ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo
I-Harvard Business Review ethi "Khulisa Ubuhlakani Bakho Bomzwelo" yincwadi ehlola lo mqondo. ubuhlakani bemizwa (IE) kanye nomthelela wayo empilweni yethu yobungcweti neyomuntu siqu. I-EI yikhono lokuqonda nokuphatha imizwa yethu kanye neyabanye. Kuyikhono elibalulekile elingathuthukisa ubudlelwano, lenze izinqumo ezinolwazi futhi lilawule kangcono ingcindezi.
Le ncwadi igqamisa isidingo sokukhomba nokuqonda imizwa yethu, ukuqaphela ukuthi izithinta kanjani izenzo zethu, nokufunda ukuyilawula ngokuphumelelayo. Ugcizelela ukuthi ukuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo akulona nje ikhono elibalulekile emsebenzini, lapho kungathuthukisa khona ukuxhumana, ukusebenzisana nobuholi, kodwa nasezimpilweni zethu zomuntu siqu, lapho kungathuthukisa khona ubudlelwano bethu kanye nenhlalakahle yethu - ukuba jikelele.
Ngokusho kwe-Harvard Business Review, i-EI ayilona ikhono esizalwa nalo, kodwa ikhono sonke esingalithuthukisa ngokuzijwayeza nangomzamo. Ngokuhlakulela i-EI yethu, asikwazi nje ukuthuthukisa izinga lethu lempilo, kodwa futhi sizuze impumelelo enkulu emisebenzini yethu.
Le ncwadi iwumthombo obalulekile kunoma ubani ofisa ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwe-EI kanye nendlela yokuyihlakulela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uchwepheshe ofuna ukuthuthukisa amakhono akho obuholi noma othile ofuna ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho bomuntu siqu, le ncwadi inokuthile engakunikeza.
Izindawo Ezinhlanu Ezibalulekile Zobuhlakani Bomzwelo
Isici esibalulekile sencwadi ye-Harvard Business Review ethi Khulisa Ubuhlakani Bakho Bomzwelo ukuhlola kwayo izindawo ezinhlanu ezibalulekile ze-EI. Lezi zindawo ukuzazi, ukuzilawula, ugqozi, uzwela, namakhono okuxhumana nabantu.
Ukuzazi kuyisisekelo se-EI. Kubhekisela ekhonweni lokuqaphela nokuqonda imizwa yethu siqu. Kusenza siqonde ukuthi imizwa yethu ithonya kanjani izenzo nezinqumo zethu.
Ukuzithiba yikhono lokulawula imizwa yethu ngempumelelo. Akukhona mayelana nokucindezela imizwa yethu, kodwa kunalokho ngokuyilawula ngendlela yokuthi ifeze imigomo yethu yesikhathi eside kunokuba isivimbele ukuba siyifinyelele.
Ukugqugquzela kungenye ingxenye ebalulekile ye-EI. Ingamandla asiqhubela ekubeni senze okuthile futhi sikhuthazele lapho sibhekene nobunzima. Abantu abane-EI ephezulu bavame ukukhuthazeka kakhulu futhi bagxile emigomweni.
Uzwela, isizinda sesine, yikhono lokuqonda nokwabelana ngemizwa yabanye. Kuyikhono elibalulekile lokudala nokugcina ubudlelwano obunempilo nobukhiqizayo.
Okokugcina, amakhono okuxhumana nabantu asho ikhono lokuzulazula ngempumelelo ekusebenzelaneni komphakathi nokwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile. Lokhu kubandakanya amakhono afana nokuxhumana, ubuholi kanye nokuxazulula izingxabano.
Ngayinye yalezi zindawo ibalulekile ekuhlakuleleni i-EI eqinile futhi le ncwadi inikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo namasu okuyithuthukisa.
Ukusebenzisa ubuhlakani bemizwa
Ngemva kokugqamisa izindawo ezinhlanu ezibalulekile zobuhlakani bomzwelo (EI), i-Harvard Business Review ethi "Nurture Your Emotional Intelligence" igxile endleleni yokusebenzisa le miqondo. Ngezifundo zezindaba zangempela kanye nezimo ezizokwenzeka, abafundi baqondiswa ngenqubo yokusebenzisa le migomo ezimweni zempilo yangempela.
Okugxilwe kakhulu ekutheni i-EI isetshenziswa kanjani ukuphatha izinselelo zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi, kusukela ekulawuleni ingcindezi kuye ekuxazululeni izingxabano kuya ebuholini. Isibonelo, ngokusebenzisa ukuzithiba, singafunda ukulawula ukusabela kwethu ngokomzwelo ngaphansi kokucindezeleka. Ngozwela, singawaqonda kangcono imibono yabanye futhi sixazulule izingxabano ngokuphumelelayo.
Le ncwadi iphinde iveze ukubaluleka kwe-EI ebuholini. Abaholi ababonisa i-EI eqinile bayakwazi kangcono ukugqugquzela amaqembu abo, baphathe ushintsho, futhi bakhe isiko lebhizinisi elihle.
Kafushane, i-Cultivate Your Emotional Intelligence iyinsiza ebalulekile kunoma ubani ofuna ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo e-EI. Inikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo nesisebenzayo esingasetshenziswa ezimweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Ngaphezu kokufunda incwadi...
Khumbula, ividiyo engezansi ihlinzeka ngesifingqo samagama abalulekile ethulwe encwadini, kodwa ayithathi indawo yokufundwa kwencwadi ngokugcwele. Ukuze uthole ukuqonda okugcwele nokuphelele kobuhlakani bomzwelo nokuthi ungakuhlakulela kanjani, ngincoma kakhulu ukuthi uyifunde yonke le ncwadi.
