Ukucacisa iimfihlelo zendalo yomntu: isitshixo sokuqonda
URobert Greene's "Imithetho yeNdalo yoMntu" nguvimba wobutyebi bobulumko kwabo bafuna ukuqonda ukuntsokotha kwendalo yomntu. Ngokuqaqambisa amandla angabonakaliyo ukuba lungisa ukuziphatha kwethu, le ncwadi inikela ingqiqo ebalulekileyo ukuze siziqonde ngakumbi thina nabanye.
Ubume bomntu bugcwele ukuphikisana kunye neemfihlelo ezinokubonakala zibhidekile. UGreene unika indlela eyodwa yokuqonda ezi ziphithiphithi ngokuphonononga imithetho yokuzalwa ekhokela indlela yethu yokuziphatha. Uthi, le mithetho, ziinyaniso zehlabathi jikelele ezidlulela ngaphaya kwemida yenkcubeko nembali.
Enye yeengcamango eziphambili zale ncwadi kukubaluleka kovelwano ekuqondeni ubume bomntu. UGreene uphikisa ukuba ukuqonda ngokwenene abanye, kufuneka sikwazi ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zabo kwaye sibone ihlabathi ngamehlo abo. Oku kuquka ukoyisa imigwebo yethu nokucalula kwethu size sizivuleleke kwiimbono ezahlukeneyo.
Ukongeza, uGreene ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuzazi. Ugxininisa ukuba ukuqonda iintshukumisa neminqweno yethu kubalulekile ukuze siqonde ezo zabanye. Ngokuhlakulela ukuziqonda ngakumbi, sinokuhlakulela uvelwano olungakumbi kwabanye yaye, ekugqibeleni, sibe nolwalamano olunomvuzo ngakumbi.
“Imithetho Yendalo Yomntu” ingaphezulu kunesikhokelo sokuqonda ukuziphatha komntu. Lubizo lokuzazi ngakumbi kunye novelwano olukhulu kwabanye. Inika umbono ohlaziyayo malunga nokuntsonkotha kwendalo yomntu kunye nendlela esinokujonga ngayo ubudlelwane bethu phakathi kwabantu ngokunempumelelo ngakumbi.
Ukuqonda iMibutho eqhubayo yeZenzo zoLuntu
Ukuqonda ubume bomntu kufuna ukuba sihlolisise amandla aphembelela izenzo zethu. Kwincwadi yakhe, uRobert Greene ubonisa indlela ukuziphatha kwethu okukhokelwa kakhulu zizinto ezihlala zingekho zingqondweni, kodwa ziqikeleleke.
UGreene uqaqambisa ifuthe leemvakalelo kwinkuthazo yethu. Ibonisa ukuba indlela esiziphatha ngayo isoloko iphenjelelwa, kwanaziimvakalelo ezinzulu esingenakusoloko sikwazi ukuzichaza ngokucacileyo. Ezi mvakalelo, nokuba zingcwatywe, zinokuba nempembelelo enamandla kwizenzo zethu nakubudlelwane bethu.
Ukongezelela, umbhali uhlola ingcamango yesazisi sentlalo kunye nendima yayo ekuziphatheni kwethu. Uthi ukuziva siyinxalenye yeqela okanye ibutho labantu kunokuba nempembelelo enkulu kwindlela esiziphatha ngayo. Ngokuqonda indlela esizibonakalisa ngayo kunye nendlela esiyibona ngayo indawo yethu kuluntu, sinokuziqonda ngcono izenzo zabanye, kunye nezethu.
Ukongeza, uGreene ujongana nesihloko sempembelelo kunye namandla. Ichaza indlela umnqweno wempembelelo kunye nokulawula unokuba namandla okuqhuba kwintsebenziswano yethu yentlalo. Ngokuqaphela lo mnqweno wamandla kunye nokufunda ukuwulawula, sinokuqonda ngcono iintshukumo ezintsonkothileyo zentlalo ezibumba ihlabathi lethu.
Ngaloo ndlela, incwadi kaGreene inikela isikhokelo esixabisekileyo sokuqonda amandla angabonakaliyo aqhuba izenzo zethu kunye nokusebenzisana kwethu. Isinika izixhobo zokucacisa inkuthazo yabantu kwaye, ke ngoko, siphucule ubudlelwane bethu kunye nokuziqonda kwethu.
Ubugcisa bokuqonda iingxaki zoluntu kwividiyo
Imithetho kaRobert Greene yeNdalo yoMntu ayihlalutyi nje ubume bomntu. Kusisitshixo esicacisa unxibelelwano oluntsonkothileyo lwabantu. UGreene ukhanyisa ukukhanya kwiindlela zangaphakathi ezibumba indlela esiziphatha ngayo kunye nendlela esisabela ngayo, isinika izixhobo zokuziqonda ngcono thina kunye nabo basingqongileyo.
Le yincwadi efundisa uvelwano kunye nokuqonda, isikhumbuza ukuba yonke intsebenziswano lithuba lokuqonda ngakumbi malunga nendalo yomntu.
Ukuba unomdla wokwazi ngakumbi ngesi sikhokelo sinomtsalane kwimithetho yendalo yomntu, unokumamela izahluko zokuqala kwividiyo. Le yeyona ndlela igqwesileyo yokufumanisa ubutyebi bale ncwadi, kodwa akukho nanye into ethatha indawo yokufunda yonke incwadi ukuze uqonde ngokupheleleyo nangokunzulu. Ke, tyebisa ukuqonda kwakho ngendalo yomntu namhlanje ngokuzintywilisela kwiMithetho yeNdalo yoMntu.
