Isiphelo siSiqalo kuphela: KwaneLanga liya kufa ngenye imini
Umbhali odumileyo kwihlabathi u-Eckhart Tolle usinika incwadi ebuhlungu enesihloko esithi “Nelanga liya kufa ngenye imini”. Incwadi iyathetha imixholo inzima kodwa ibalulekile, ngakumbi ukufa kwethu kunye nokuphela kwayo yonke into ekhoyo kwindalo iphela.
UMnu. Tolle, njengenkosi yokwenyani yokomoya, usimema ukuba sicinge ngobudlelwane bethu nokufa. Kusikhumbuza ukuba oku akukona nje isiganeko esingenakuphepheka, kodwa kwakhona yinyani enokusinceda siqonde ngcono ubomi kwaye siphile ngokupheleleyo kulo mzuzu wangoku. Ilanga, laa bhola inkulu yomlilo enika ubomi kwisijikelezi-langa sethu, iya kufa njengathi ngenye imini. Le yinyani engenakuphikiswa kwaye jikelele.
Kodwa kude nokufaka ukuphelelwa lithemba, oku kuqonda, ngokutsho kukaTolle, kunokuba yintshukumisa enamandla yokuphila ngokuqaphela ngakumbi nangakumbi. Uxoxa ngokwamkela lo mda njengendlela yokugqithisa uloyiko lwethu lwasemhlabeni kunye nokudibanisa ukuze sifumane intsingiselo enzulu kubukho bethu.
Kuyo yonke le ncwadi, uTolle usebenzisa iprozi ehambayo nekhuthazayo ukusikhokela kwezi zifundo zinzima. Inika uqheliselo olusebenzayo ukunceda abafundi ukuba basebenzise ezi ngqikelelo ngaphakathi kwaye bazisebenzise kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
Ukukhetha ukuqonda ukudlula ukufa
Kwi-"Nkqu nelanga liya kufa ngenye imini", u-Eckhart Tolle usinika enye i-engile yokuphonononga ngokufa: leyo yokuba sezingqondweni. Ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuqonda kwindlela yethu yokufa, kuba yile nto ivumela ukuba siqonde ubume bethu bokwenyani, ngaphaya kwefomu yethu yokufa komzimba.
Ngokutsho kweTolle, ukuqonda kokuphela kwethu, kude nokuba ngumthombo wokuxhalaba, kunokuba yinjini enamandla ukufikelela kwimeko yobukho kunye nengqondo. Umbono asikokuvumela uloyiko lokufa ukuba lulawule ubukho bethu, kodwa silusebenzise njengesikhumbuzo esiqhubekayo sokuxabisa umzuzu ngamnye wobomi.
Ubonisa ukufa kungekhona njengesiganeko esibuhlungu nesokugqibela, kodwa njengenkqubo yenguqu, ukubuyela kwisiseko sobomi obungenakuguquguquka nobunaphakade. Ke isazisi esiye sazakha kubo bonke ubomi bethu asiyiyo ngokwenene into esiyiyo. Singaphezulu koko: singukuqonda sijonga obu buni kunye nobu bomi.
Ngokwale mbono, uTolle ucebisa ukuba ukwamkele ukufa akuthethi kuthi phithi kuko, kodwa ukukwamkela njengenxalenye yobomi. Kuphela kungokwamkela ukufa apho sinokuthi ngokwenene siqalise ukuphila ngokupheleleyo. Iyasikhuthaza ukuba siyeke ukukhohliswa ngokusisigxina kwaye samkele ukuhamba okuzingileyo kobomi.
Jika Ukufa Kube Bubulumko
UTolle, kwi "Nokuba ilanga liya kufa ngenye imini", ayishiyi indawo yokungacaci. Eyona nyaniso ingenakuphikiswa yobomi kukuba buyaphela. Le nyaniso isenokubonakala idimaza, kodwa uTolle uyasimema ukuba siyibone ngenye indlela. Ucebisa ukusebenzisa ukufa njengesipili, ebonisa ixabiso kunye nokudlula komzuzu ngamnye.
Yazisa uluvo lwendawo yokuqonda, okukukwazi ukujonga iingcinga neemvakalelo zethu ngaphandle kokuncamathela kuzo. Kungokuhlakulela le ndawo ukuba sinokuqala ukukhululeka ekubanjweni koloyiko kunye nokuchasana, kwaye samkele ubomi nokufa ngokwamkelwa okunzulu.
Ngaphaya koko, uTolle usikhokela ukuba sibubone ubukho be-ego, edla ngokuba yingcambu yoloyiko lwethu lokufa. Uchaza ukuba i-ego ivakalelwa kukuba isongelwe kukufa ngenxa yokuba ichongiwe ngesimo sethu somzimba kunye neengcinga zethu. Ngokuqaphela le ego sinokuqala ukuyichitha kwaye sifumane eyona nto yethu yokwenyani engaphelelwa lixesha kwaye ingafi.
Isishwankathelo, i-Tolle isinika indlela yokuguqula ukufa kwi-taboo kunye nesihloko esoyikisayo sibe ngumthombo wobulumko kunye nokuzibona. Ngaloo ndlela, ukufa kuba yinkosi ethuleyo esifundisa ukubaluleka kwawo wonke umzuzu kwaye isikhokelela kwindalo yethu yokwenyani.
Ngaba uyafuna ukufunda ngakumbi ngeemfundiso ezinzulu zikaTolle? Qiniseka ukuba uyayimamela ividiyo egubungela izahluko zokuqala zethi “Nokuba Ilanga Liya Kufa Ngenye imini”. Yintshayelelo egqibeleleyo kubulumko bukaTolle malunga nokufa kunye nokuvuka.
