Ukufumanisa Amandla Okuzeyisa
Kweli hlabathi likhuthaza ngakumbi ukonwaba nokukhululeka, ukukwazi ukuzeyisa kusenokubonakala kusiba nzima. isakhono esinqabileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uMartin Gautier, kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Motivation and Self-discipline", usikhumbuza ngokubaluleka kwesi sikhundla ekuphumezeni iinjongo zethu kunye nempumelelo yempumelelo.
UMartin Gautier uphonononga izibonelelo ezininzi zokuzibamba, nokuba kukufikelela kwiinjongo zobuqu okanye zobungcali, ukuphucula impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni, okanye ukwandisa imveliso kunye nokusebenza kakuhle. Ibalaselisa indlela ukuzeyisa okunokuba ngundoqo wokoyisa ukuzibekela amangomso izinto, ukulisebenzisa kakuhle ixesha, nokuzingisa phezu kwayo nje imiqobo.
Umbhali ukwagxininisa ukubaluleka kwenkuthazo engaphakathi ukuxhasa ukuzeyisa. Ngokutsho kwakhe, ukufumana inkuthazo enzulu kunye neyomntu ekufezekiseni injongo ingaba yinto ecacileyo ekukwazi ukugcina ukuzithiba kwixesha elide.
Akanazintloni zokucombulula iingxaki esijamelana nazo xa kufikelelwa kumba wokuqhelisela ukuzeyisa. Phakathi kwale mingeni, ukhankanya iziphazamiso ezixhaphakileyo zehlabathi lethu lanamhlanje, ulindelo olungekho ngqiqweni ngathi, kunye nokungacaci kweenjongo zethu zokwenene. Inikela icebiso elisebenzisekayo lokoyisa le miqobo nokuhlakulela ukuzeyisa okuhlala kuhleli.
Okokugqibela, uMartin Gautier unikezela ngobuchule obubambekayo kunye nezicwangciso zokuqinisa ukuzithiba. Ukususela ekusekweni kweendlela ezisebenzayo, ukufunda indlela yokulawula uxinzelelo, ukuphuhlisa ingqondo yokukhula, inikezela ngobuninzi bezinto eziluncedo kwabo bafuna ukuphuhlisa ukuzithiba kwabo.
"Ukukhuthazwa kunye nokuZiqeqesha" ayisosikhokelo sokuphuhlisa ukuzithiba, kodwa kunye nesixhobo esixabisekileyo sokuqonda indlela obu buchule bunokuguqula ngayo ubomi bakho.
Ukufumanisa amandla okuziqeqesha: uMartin Gautier
KuGautier, ikhonkco phakathi kwenkuthazo kunye nokuzeyisa ayinakwahlulwa. Yindibaniselwano enamandla enokusikhokelela kwimpumelelo engazange ibonwe ngaphambili yobuqu nakwimpumelelo. Uqinisekisa ukuba, nangona inkuthazo ingaba yintshatsheli yesenzo, kukuzibamba okuqinisekisa ukuqhubeka kunye nokuhambelana kwezi zenzo ekufezekiseni iinjongo.
Enye yeembalasane zomsebenzi wakhe yingcamango yokuba ukuzeyisa asilophawu lwemvelo, kodwa bubuchule obunokuphuhliswa ngokuhamba kwexesha nangomgudu. Ngenxa yoku, ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokumisela iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla ezikhuthaza ukuzeyisa. Ezi nkqubo, xa zilandelwa rhoqo, zinokunceda ukwakha ukuzeyisa nokwenza kube yinto eqhelekileyo.
Ngaphandle kwenkqubo yesiqhelo, uGautier ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokumisela iinjongo ezicacileyo nezinokufikelelwa. Injongo echazwe kakuhle inokusebenza njengesikhokelo kwaye inike intsingiselo kwizenzo zethu zemihla ngemihla. Kwakhona uncoma ukubhiyozela ukuphumelela okuncinci endleleni, enokunyusa ukukhuthaza kunye nokuzibophezela kwinjongo yokugqibela.
Umbhali akabutyesheli ubunzima obukhoyo kwindlela yokuziqeqesha. Iyaqonda ukuba umntu ngamnye ujongene nemiceli mngeni yakhe eyahlukileyo kwaye inika izicwangciso zokoyisa imiqobo enjengokuzibekela amangomso izinto, ukuphazamiseka nokudimazeka. Ukhuthaza ukubona le mingeni ingekuko njengokungaphumeleli, kodwa njengamathuba okufunda nokukhula.
Lilonke, “iNkuthazo kunye nokuZiqeqesha” ibonelela ngombono otyebisayo kwindima engundoqo yokuziqeqesha ekufezekiseni amabhongo ethu. Ngengcebiso yakhe esebenzayo kunye nenkuthazo, uGautier unikezela ngesikhokelo esixabiseke kakhulu kuye nabani na ojonge ukulawula ubomi bakhe kwaye aqonde amandla abo apheleleyo.
Amandla aTshintsho okuZiqeqesha: uMartin Gautier
Ukuvala uphononongo lwethu “lweNkuthazo kunye nokuZiqeqesha”, kubalulekile ukuqaqambisa umbono kaGautier wenguqu yobuqu ngokuziqeqesha. Ngokutsho kombhali, ukuzeyisa kunokubonwa njengento eqhubayo enokusinceda sitshintshe ngeendlela ezakhayo nezinentsingiselo.
Umbono ophambili wale ncwadi kukuba ukuzeyisa kunokusetyenziswa njengesixhobo sokoyisa imida esizibekela yona. Ngokuhlakulela ukuzeyisa okuqinileyo, sinokuyoyisa imikhwa yethu engafanelekanga, uloyiko namathandabuzo, size ngaloo ndlela siqonde eyona minqweno yethu inzulu.
UGautier ukwabonisa ukuba ukuzeyisa kusenza sikwazi ukulilawula kakuhle ixesha nezinto esinazo, kusinceda sibeke izinto ezibalulekileyo kwindawo yokuqala size siphephe iziphazamiso. Ngale ndlela, ukuzeyisa kunokusinceda sibe nemveliso ngakumbi kwaye sifikelele usukelo lwethu ngokukhawuleza nangempumelelo.
Okokugqibela, umbhali ucebisa ukuba ukuzeyisa kunokusinceda siphuhlise ukomelela ngakumbi xa sijamelene nemiqobo nemingeni. Kunokuba sivumele imiqobo ukuba isidimaze, ukuzeyisa kusikhuthaza ukuba siyibone njengamathuba okufunda, okukhulisa nokuphucula.
"Kodwa ukuzeyisa", ugxininisa uGautier, "ayisosiphelo ngokwako". Yindlela yokuqonda amandla ethu, ukufezekisa iinjongo zethu, kunye nokuzisa utshintsho olulungileyo kubomi bethu kunye nobomi babanye. Ngokufunda ukulawula intshukumisa yethu kunye nokuzeyisa, silawula ikamva lethu kwaye sisondele ngakumbi kumntu esinqwenela ukuba nguye.
Isikhumbuzo: Le vidiyo ingasentla inika umbono onika umdla “kwiNkuthazo kunye nokuZiqeqesha”, kodwa ayithathi ndawo yokufunda incwadi. Thatha ixesha lokuntywila kule ncwadi ukwenza uninzi lobutyebi bolwazi kunye nokuqonda uGautier anokunikela ngako.
